Rest your head, you worry too much
It's gonna be alright, when times get rough
You can fall back on us
Don't give up
Please don't give up
Friday, February 3, 2012
Kinda think lots of us need this today.....
Rest your head, you worry too much
It's gonna be alright, when times get rough
You can fall back on us
Don't give up
Please don't give up
Wednesday, February 1, 2012
A class act
I know I told you readers about my going to the Sister Hazel show at HOB in December.
The part I left out?
That's today's story.
I always "rent" a bar stool at HOB concerts these days. The shows are too long for me to be standing. For the Sister Hazel show, I ended up with the best bar stool in the house (or so I thought). I was seat A, stage right. So, like the first seat right next to the stage. I was ecstatic.
Until
During the lull between opening act 1 and opening act 2, the people who had the two bar stools next to me showed up.
Sure, they were clearly white trash, but I don't let that kind of stuff bother me.
What bothered me, then?
When WT lady said (at the top of her lungs):
"OH MY GOD!! IT'S SO UNFAIR!!! I HAVE TO SIT NEXT TO THE FAT CHICK!!!"
Readers, I am not thin, but I know for damn sure that my ass fits wholly and securely on my own damn bar stool. I don't take up any more space than anyone else, really.
The entire evening the ugly comments continued. I heard then, my friends heard them, complete strangers heard them, the bartender heard them (and gave me a free beer) - you get the point.
I know what you're thinking - 'Why, Von, being the bad ass that you are, that you didn't take care of business?!?!?'
Because
If I had verbally sparred with her, I would have won and likely been kicked out of the show in the process. If I had physically sparred with her and her husband, I would have one, and absolutely been kicked out.
I paid $86 to see my favorite band live, who I hadn't seen in over a year, I was NOT getting kicked out.
So, the vitriol continued, until mid Sister Hazel when they were too drunk to keep their heads up so they left. Of course a parting shot:
"YOU CAN HAVE OUR SEATS, IF YOU THINK YOU CAN FIT THERE!!!"
The couple she offered her seats to declined, and I'm pretty sure the wife called her a bitch.
And the rest of the night continued.
I was no worse for the wear - trust me, I have the confidence of a super model.
What stayed with me was just the awfulness of it. I was mad - more mad that I couldn't do anything about it, and mad that it happened there, in a happy chill place.
So, I sent the greatest email of my entire life to customer services at the HOB.
I mean, the greatest. The subject line was The Good, the Bad and the Ugly. First, I complimented the staff I talked to that night, because everyone was amazing. I thanked them for having the bar stool option. Then, I launched in to "the incident". I spent a good part of the email explaining that I know with my whole heart that HOB was NOT to blame, I just wanted to make them aware.
Two days later - I receive a phone call from E, who is the executive assistant to the GM. We had a long talk about the incident. She won me over when she said "I'm sorry, but I can't believe you didn't punch her in the face"
She told me that the next time I visit the HOB, I should let her know so we can meet.
Monday night, I met one of my sisters there for dinner. I had called E and let her know we would be there.
Walk in - give name- host says "Oh! Von! There you are! You're a friend of E's!"
We had a fantastic meal, with a complimentary dessert provided by E. She came and sat with us for a good 20 minutes and we talked. She's a very sweet, down to earth, professional chick.
As she was leaving, she let me know that I should call her every time I'm going to be at the HOB. She also said that she had my number, and that she'd be calling me too.
Now - there you have it. The whole thing - 100% of it, House of Blues was NOT to blame. The security guard, the bartenders, everyone was wonderful. They cannot control who visits their establishment.
But the way they are treating me - like this is a big deal to them, and they are so not happy that it happened there, and that they want to make sure I am happy and a returning customer - they are 100% a class act. I will absolutely continue to spend my money there. I will absolutely not start fights with any horrible people there. Well, not inside, anyway.
The part I left out?
That's today's story.
I always "rent" a bar stool at HOB concerts these days. The shows are too long for me to be standing. For the Sister Hazel show, I ended up with the best bar stool in the house (or so I thought). I was seat A, stage right. So, like the first seat right next to the stage. I was ecstatic.
Until
During the lull between opening act 1 and opening act 2, the people who had the two bar stools next to me showed up.
Sure, they were clearly white trash, but I don't let that kind of stuff bother me.
What bothered me, then?
When WT lady said (at the top of her lungs):
"OH MY GOD!! IT'S SO UNFAIR!!! I HAVE TO SIT NEXT TO THE FAT CHICK!!!"
Reader
The entire evening the ugly comments continued. I heard then, my friends heard them, complete strangers heard them, the bartender heard them (and gave me a free beer) - you get the point.
I know what you're thinking - 'Why, Von, being the bad ass that you are, that you didn't take care of business?!?!?'
Because
If I had verbally sparred with her, I would have won and likely been kicked out of the show in the process. If I had physically sparred with her and her husband, I would have one, and absolutely been kicked out.
I paid $86 to see my favorite band live, who I hadn't seen in over a year, I was NOT getting kicked out.
So, the vitriol continued, until mid Sister Hazel when they were too drunk to keep their heads up so they left. Of course a parting shot:
"YOU CAN HAVE OUR SEATS, IF YOU THINK YOU CAN FIT THERE!!!"
The couple she offered her seats to declined, and I'm pretty sure the wife called her a bitch.
And the rest of the night continued.
I was no worse for the wear - trust me, I have the confidence of a super model.
What stayed with me was just the awfulness of it. I was mad - more mad that I couldn't do anything about it, and mad that it happened there, in a happy chill place.
So, I sent the greatest email of my entire life to customer services at the HOB.
I mean, the greatest. The subject line was The Good, the Bad and the Ugly. First, I complimented the staff I talked to that night, because everyone was amazing. I thanked them for having the bar stool option. Then, I launched in to "the incident". I spent a good part of the email explaining that I know with my whole heart that HOB was NOT to blame, I just wanted to make them aware.
Two days later - I receive a phone call from E, who is the executive assistant to the GM. We had a long talk about the incident. She won me over when she said "I'm sorry, but I can't believe you didn't punch her in the face"
She told me that the next time I visit the HOB, I should let her know so we can meet.
Monday night, I met one of my sisters there for dinner. I had called E and let her know we would be there.
Walk in - give name- host says "Oh! Von! There you are! You're a friend of E's!"
We had a fantastic meal, with a complimentary dessert provided by E. She came and sat with us for a good 20 minutes and we talked. She's a very sweet, down to earth, professional chick.
As she was leaving, she let me know that I should call her every time I'm going to be at the HOB. She also said that she had my number, and that she'd be calling me too.
Now - there you have it. The whole thing - 100% of it, House of Blues was NOT to blame. The security guard, the bartenders, everyone was wonderful. They cannot control who visits their establishment.
But the way they are treating me - like this is a big deal to them, and they are so not happy that it happened there, and that they want to make sure I am happy and a returning customer - they are 100% a class act. I will absolutely continue to spend my money there. I will absolutely not start fights with any horrible people there. Well, not inside, anyway.
Monday, January 30, 2012
Awkward
Once upon a time....
I was a Girl Scout. I wasn't just a GS in grammar school, when it was kinda acceptable - OH NO.
I was a full fledged graduated after getting every single award possible GS.
I have my Gold Award, which is the highest honor in scouting.
I can light a fire in the rain with a single match.
I can cook a four course meal in the ground in a dutch oven.
I can camp, outdoors, in every season the Midwest has to offer. EVERY season.
I can survive for two and a half days with just the items in my back pack.
So, this year is the 100th anniversary of GS.
I have fallen away from the organization over my adult years solely because I have a hatred (that is 100% reciprocated) for the woman that was my troop leader when I graduated.
She is the reason I have done nothing - because she is everywhere. So, I just gave in and stopped.
But I can tell you that the reason I continue to volunteer my life away to this day has it's roots in my GS background.
I loved everything about the GS, and I can say that GS is mostly responsible for my independent spirit, my gigantic self confidence, all of my good qualities - not the least of which my ability to survive a zombie apocalypse.
This past Saturday, the previously mentioned hated one (heretofore known as HO) had an all day celebration for her past scouts. Laura and I decided to make an appearance.
It was bittersweet for me, seeing years and years and years worth of pictures of me and Laura in our best friend times. We received our Gold Awards together. Those days, we did everything together. So looking at the pictures was really hard for me, because I miss that.
Anyway - came across a picture of EB. EB and her friend DT were older than me, and used to pick on me. DT was very scary, she was just a mean bitch - but EB was the one who was silent so therefore deadly. I looked at these pictures, and said out loud:
"If EB showed up here today, I could totally kick her ass! I bet I'm five times her size!"
---EB was a very tiny girl----
Then I looked at HO and said "She's not coming is she?"
HO of course, ignored me.
So, we sat there and had some dollar store pop and some cookies and killed time.
All of the sudden
EB
And four teenagers
I can't really tell you what happened, but I know I fell over chairs, got all flushed, and begged Laura if we could go. EB avoided me, until I said:
"EB. I was so afraid of you."
She laughed the laugh that I immediately remembered as villainous and evil. Except now it didn't sound so evil.
"I just told these kids in the hallway that you were afraid of me for years, so I wasn't going to talk to you"
"Ha! Ha ha! Yep, well that was then and all that"......and I fell over a chair backing away from her.
Best part? - It's true, I'm way taller and way bigger than she is. She's a mom. A 41 year old mother.
And I'm a bad-ass, a few years her junior.
But I turned into a big pile of cowardly goo.
I got really nervous about everything coming out of my mouth.
Laura finally stated that we could go.
Thank God!
Said goodbye to EB, who was having a field day with my awkwardness.
Had to say goodbye to HO.
She said:
"You should stop by our meetings! Any time!'
My reply:
"Why?"
blank stare
Somehow, not sure, I recovered myself just enough to get a dig in there.
So, that was my Saturday......or part of it, anyway
I was a Girl Scout. I wasn't just a GS in grammar school, when it was kinda acceptable - OH NO.
I was a full fledged graduated after getting every single award possible GS.
I have my Gold Award, which is the highest honor in scouting.
I can light a fire in the rain with a single match.
I can cook a four course meal in the ground in a dutch oven.
I can camp, outdoors, in every season the Midwest has to offer. EVERY season.
I can survive for two and a half days with just the items in my back pack.
So, this year is the 100th anniversary of GS.
I have fallen away from the organization over my adult years solely because I have a hatred (that is 100% reciprocated) for the woman that was my troop leader when I graduated.
She is the reason I have done nothing - because she is everywhere. So, I just gave in and stopped.
But I can tell you that the reason I continue to volunteer my life away to this day has it's roots in my GS background.
I loved everything about the GS, and I can say that GS is mostly responsible for my independent spirit, my gigantic self confidence, all of my good qualities - not the least of which my ability to survive a zombie apocalypse.
This past Saturday, the previously mentioned hated one (heretofore known as HO) had an all day celebration for her past scouts. Laura and I decided to make an appearance.
It was bittersweet for me, seeing years and years and years worth of pictures of me and Laura in our best friend times. We received our Gold Awards together. Those days, we did everything together. So looking at the pictures was really hard for me, because I miss that.
Anyway - came across a picture of EB. EB and her friend DT were older than me, and used to pick on me. DT was very scary, she was just a mean bitch - but EB was the one who was silent so therefore deadly. I looked at these pictures, and said out loud:
"If EB showed up here today, I could totally kick her ass! I bet I'm five times her size!"
---EB was a very tiny girl----
Then I looked at HO and said "She's not coming is she?"
HO of course, ignored me.
So, we sat there and had some dollar store pop and some cookies and killed time.
All of the sudden
EB
And four teenagers
I can't really tell you what happened, but I know I fell over chairs, got all flushed, and begged Laura if we could go. EB avoided me, until I said:
"EB. I was so afraid of you."
She laughed the laugh that I immediately remembered as villainous and evil. Except now it didn't sound so evil.
"I just told these kids in the hallway that you were afraid of me for years, so I wasn't going to talk to you"
"Ha! Ha ha! Yep, well that was then and all that"......and I fell over a chair backing away from her.
Best part? - It's true, I'm way taller and way bigger than she is. She's a mom. A 41 year old mother.
And I'm a bad-ass, a few years her junior.
But I turned into a big pile of cowardly goo.
I got really nervous about everything coming out of my mouth.
Laura finally stated that we could go.
Thank God!
Said goodbye to EB, who was having a field day with my awkwardness.
Had to say goodbye to HO.
She said:
"You should stop by our meetings! Any time!'
My reply:
"Why?"
blank stare
Somehow, not sure, I recovered myself just enough to get a dig in there.
So, that was my Saturday......or part of it, anyway
Friday, January 27, 2012
Ahem, Pinko
Ahem, Pinko -
Sometimes,
I just
Do what I'm told.
It's possible the orange cat with the orb eyes made this happen.
Or
The undead overlord.
I'm allergic to cats.....
Sometimes,
I just
Do what I'm told.
It's possible the orange cat with the orb eyes made this happen.
Or
The undead overlord.
I'm allergic to cats.....
Tuesday, January 24, 2012
Kinda a bitch
Last week, I was talking to VonMom.
I was filling her in on the phone call I had with my God-mother the night before.
So, of course, we were talking about VonDad.
I was reminded that VonDad had said over and over and over again that he didn't want to go out the way his best friend Bud did. Long hospital stays, sick for months and months, all of that bad business of dying. He always said he hated that's how Bud had to go, and just didn't want that for himself.
Well, VonDad got his wish. His passing took less than an hour, in the end.
VonMom looked at me and said "I want that. I want to go out like Dad did"
I could have been nice, but I'm still working on that with her and with the rest of the world I guess. Plus, it's kinda in my nature to say the first evil thing that comes to mind:
"Keep on smoking like you do, and maybe you'll get your wish"
Sometimes, I don't even know what the fuck is wrong with me.
I was filling her in on the phone call I had with my God-mother the night before.
So, of course, we were talking about VonDad.
I was reminded that VonDad had said over and over and over again that he didn't want to go out the way his best friend Bud did. Long hospital stays, sick for months and months, all of that bad business of dying. He always said he hated that's how Bud had to go, and just didn't want that for himself.
Well, VonDad got his wish. His passing took less than an hour, in the end.
VonMom looked at me and said "I want that. I want to go out like Dad did"
I could have been nice, but I'm still working on that with her and with the rest of the world I guess. Plus, it's kinda in my nature to say the first evil thing that comes to mind:
"Keep on smoking like you do, and maybe you'll get your wish"
Sometimes, I don't even know what the fuck is wrong with me.
Friday, January 20, 2012
Miss Von for now forever?
I've been giving a lot of thought to my single-ness lately.
I'm trying to be more honest with myself, and in doing so, I guess that'll make me more honest with you readers.
You all know since the passing of VonDad, I've given myself the free pass of Vulnerable and Prone to Making Bad Decisions.
Not that I think any of my decisions since October have been bad. I haven't hurt anyone else, not really, and no harm has come to me.
I've got not one but two good guys who are pretty happy with the state of affairs right now. I'm happy that one is back in my life, and I'm also happy that I've gotten to know the other. If nothing else they both may end up as pretty decent friends. And, let's face it - I'm happy to be getting some on a regular basis.
there's that honesty thing, right there
Now, a few of my friends (who happen to be ladies) think that I'm acting "like a guy". I'm not sure if that's supposed to be warning, or insulting, or a compliment. I just find it confusing. I had a need, I took care of it. Luckily I am pretty charming and not a troll, so it wasn't difficult to find a couple of guys to help me out. And, truthfully, if I had more time, I'd probably add one or two more to the calendar. Variety is the spice of life.
As to the single-ness that I linger in.
I think I'd make a really shitty girlfriend, and an even worse wife. I'm just being honest here. I used to think that I'd be AWESOME as either girlfriend or wife, but now, I'm not so sure.
I have very specific things that I'm not entirely sure I can bend on:
I'm trying to be more honest with myself, and in doing so, I guess that'll make me more honest with you reader
You all know since the passing of VonDad, I've given myself the free pass of Vulnerable and Prone to Making Bad Decisions.
Not that I think any of my decisions since October have been bad. I haven't hurt anyone else, not really, and no harm has come to me.
I've got not one but two good guys who are pretty happy with the state of affairs right now. I'm happy that one is back in my life, and I'm also happy that I've gotten to know the other. If nothing else they both may end up as pretty decent friends. And, let's face it - I'm happy to be getting some on a regular basis.
there's that honesty thing, right there
Now, a few of my friends (who happen to be ladies) think that I'm acting "like a guy". I'm not sure if that's supposed to be warning, or insulting, or a compliment. I just find it confusing. I had a need, I took care of it. Luckily I am pretty charming and not a troll, so it wasn't difficult to find a couple of guys to help me out. And, truthfully, if I had more time, I'd probably add one or two more to the calendar. Variety is the spice of life.
As to the single-ness that I linger in.
I think I'd make a really shitty girlfriend, and an even worse wife. I'm just being honest here. I used to think that I'd be AWESOME as either girlfriend or wife, but now, I'm not so sure.
I have very specific things that I'm not entirely sure I can bend on:
- I live alone, and have for 12 years. Therefore, I not only LOVE my free alone time, I COVET it. You can be in my house sometimes, you can even spend some Sunday time there, but sometimes, you just need to NOT.
- I have one full time job that I love. I have one part time job that I also love. This means I work downtown M - F 8-5, and also work either Friday or Saturday night immediately following work until really late, sometimes on Thursday nights and oh yeah, sometimes on Sundays too. Again, I LOVE this part time job of mine, and I'm not willing to give it up. Oh, and I'm on the board of directors at DANK, which takes up whatever is left of my time. I have 11 more months of that good time, so there's that. OH AND, both part time gig and DANK are in Lincoln Square, so not that close to home.
- I kinda hate talking on the phone. Sure, text me until your finger tips fall off, go to town, but really - don't call me.
- I actually LIKE watching football and baseball and hockey. I also enjoy being on fantasy leagues. What I don't like? You trying to explain all of sports to me like I'm a silly little bar fly without a clue. When and if I need your help with my fantasy teams, I will ask you. With my head hung in shame.
- I don't cook. I hate it. I do bake, but only sometimes, and never for myself. I bake and give it away. I will make a tray of lasagna once in a while, but that's it.
- The beer in the fridge? That's mine. It's from WI and is not exported to IL, so no, you can't "just try it". Same goes for my bottle of 16 year single malt scotch. Ok, that you can have, if you know how to drink it. And if I can pour it for you.
- My friends and family are important to me. It's pretty important that you can tolerate them. Oh, did I mention I have SIX siblings? All older than me? Good with that? Didn't think so.
- I have tattoos, and intend to get more. I really don't care if you have an opinion on that.
- I don't really want to talk politics or religion with you. Ever.
Wednesday, January 18, 2012
Things that piss me off Wednesday
Probably a bad thing that I'm posting today when we're supposed to go dark or something.
But, hey, I rarely go with the flow, so I'll just post away.
Things thatstick in my craw, that make me throw up in my mouth, that I have contempt for today:
But, hey, I rarely go with the flow, so I'll just post away.
Things that
- My socks. I'm wearing awesome argyle knee socks (it's fucking cold here, people) and they won't stay up! Spending a lot of quality time pulling up my socks. I don't have time for this sock pulling upness. Just stay up. That is your only function.
- My lunch. Sure, it was free which is always a plus, but it was sub-par. The thing is, we knew it would be. Kinda went like this: *sigh* "Let's go to name redacted" It's next door, and it's cold, so there you have it.
- People who post the same old boring shit on teh FB. As in: Happy Hump day! One day closer to the weekend! Um, thanks, Captain Obvious, for letting us know it's Wednesday. And wow, that is the exact same thing you posted LAST Wednesday. Lame and boring. Boring and lame. Let's spice it up a bit, or not post at all, m'kay?
- Female bloggers who beg cry and would swallow (yep, I said it) for attention. If no one is reading your blog? It probably sucks. If no one is replying to your comments? They're probably over you and your b.s. Just shut the fuck up and write your stupid little posts. If they get read, great if not, so what?! Does your blog make or break you as a person? Probably - about as much as interweb attention from a bunch of dudes who really don't give a shit does.
- Chicago radio. I've said it before, and I'll say it again. There is NOTHING worth listening to on Chicago radio. Nothing. Even XRT is a mess of repeats. If I have to hear Pumped Up Kicks one more time in an 8 hour workday, I'll throw my Hello Kitty boom box right out the window.
- SOPA and PIPA. I now understand what all of the hub bub is about, and I don't like it one bit. See, I took some time to educate myself on the topic, THEN formed an opinion. Novel idea!
- That I can't park in the garage this winter. C'mon Overlord - you won't be working soon, which means you'll have plenty of time to clear the snow off of
yourVonDad's truck. I leave for work at 6:25 every day. Would be nice if I could just pull out of the garage....no snow to clean off....but nooooooo. - The whole Paula Deen thing. Do we wish her ill just because she cooks everything with a stick of butter? I think she's cute, and fun to watch. I'm sad for her, just as I'd be sad for anyone diagnosed with something sucky. Let's leave her alone.
- Winter. I said it. I'm a wimp. I hate everything about winter. We've been so lucky with no real winter until very recently, but I don't care. Hate snow, hate cold, hate ice. I just want to sleep through it.
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